During my years as a professional dominatrix, some of the most rewarding experiences were in helping couples connect in their desires in kink. I have bound couples together in rope so that they could make love to one another with a sensual web weaved around them. I have coached women in engaging their dominant persona over their husbands with the use of a chastity cage and a strap-on. I’ve choreographed elaborate scenes for advanced players who were looking for a unique and exhilarating experience and I have consulted with novices on how to begin engaging in basic kink.
In Guided Play sessions, we may start with a consultation that determines what each person desires, how to honestly and respectfully communicate and negotiate play activities, and how to be conscious of one’s responsibilities over oneself and their partner throughout. During session, I may be the sole Dominant, leading one or both partners, or I may co-top as a teaching Guide, mentoring the Top partner as we play. I enjoy being a choreographer of special sessions, including abduction scenarios, extended to multiple day sessions, and discreet public outings. I work with other skilled professionals--Dommes, Masters, and male and female Switches. I also offer rituals of connection for Couples--collaring and dedication ceremonies.
I offer these specialized services as a Dominant Guide for Couples:
-Introduction to kink: communication, safety precautions, setting scenes
-Percussive play: Spanking, paddles, caning, flogging, whips, single tail from sensual to strict
-Bondage: Rope, leather, latex, metal. Simple restraints to extreme immobilization.
-Piercing, surgical stapling
-Electrical Play: Violet wand, Folsom unit
-Genital Torture: CBT, PT, tease, denial, torture, chastity training
-Nipple Torture: from sensual to prolonged torture, clips & suction to unique variations
-Medical play: enema administration, catheter insertion, dilators, and more
-Power Exchange: Discipline training, sexual humiliation, role play
-Gender Bending: cross dressing, crossing normative boundaries, recreating one’s sexual definition, tearing it down, and recreating again.
-Fetish Adoration: Whether it is the foot, a leather boot, rubber, or strap-on, I can help both partners communicate how they want their fetish adored and worshiped, and offer advice and techniques to achieve mutual satisfaction.
For more information, please contact YIN Q. with an introductory email, including your and your partner’s interests and experiences with BDSM (if any). I will require a phone consultation with both partners prior to meeting. If I am not suited to your play exploration, I may be able to direct you to a more adaptable colleague. YIN (period) Quan (at) gmail (dot) com.
